The “funeral” I attended this last weekend wasn’t a traditional one. It was in my uncle’s yard. There was a barbecue and there were a lot of mosquitoes to contend with. There was nothing religious going on, no formal service at all; people spoke, but mostly spontaneously, and mostly just about their happy memories of my grandmother.
I mingled a little, but spent most of my time there sitting with my siblings and my cousin looking through stacks and stacks of photo albums.
I love photos. In the days of film, I would always develop my pictures as the rolls were used up on my vacations rather than wait until I was home. I can spend hours and hours putting together my photo albums and looking through them. Continue reading